About Des
Meet Des
I’m not here by accident…
and neither are you.
Because if you’ve found your way here, chances are…
Something in your marriage doesn’t feel the way it used to.
And before anything else, I want you to know this:
👉 You are not alone.
👉 And your marriage is not beyond hope.
💔 Why This Is So Personal To Me
I was the child in the middle of a broken marriage.
One of the moments that stayed with me forever…
was seeing my father sitting on the floor, his Bible on his lap…
asking God why this was happening.
I remember feeling angry.
I remember feeling helpless.
Because I knew what was happening behind the scenes…
and I carried that pain silently because I didn’t want to hurt him even more.
I was only 12…
but I understood enough to know this:
👉 Divorce doesn’t fix the pain.
👉 It spreads it.
I remember asking God even then…
to help prevent this from happening.
Because no child should ever have to choose between parents.
And no family should have to break when healing is still possible.
What I Believe About Marriage
I believe marriage is sacred.
A bond between two people… before God.
I believe most marriages don’t fail because love is gone…
but because life gets loud.
Time, stress, finances, responsibilities…
they slowly create distance…
and that distance turns into disconnection.
But I also believe this with my whole heart:
👉 Restoration is possible.
👉 Healing is possible.
👉 Love can be rebuilt.
When even one person is willing to shift, grow, and fight for it.
My Own Marriage
I’ve been with my husband for 25 years…
and married for 19.
And I can say this with full confidence:
I have never doubted our love.
Not because we are perfect…
but because we chose to stand together.
Through challenges.
Through seasons of having almost nothing.
Through life’s hardest moments.
We didn’t let those things pull us apart…
we let them draw us closer.
And that’s something I now know:
👉 Your marriage doesn’t have to break under pressure
👉 It can become stronger through it
What I Help You Do
Why Coaching (Not Counseling)
I studied psychology…
I’ve seen trauma, loss, and pain up close.
But what I’ve learned is this:
👉 Awareness alone doesn’t create change
👉 Action + guidance does
That’s why I coach.
Because coaching equips you with real tools, real shifts,
and a way forward that actually changes your life.
When you work with me, this is what changes:
✨ You go from confusion → clarity
✨ From emotional chaos → peace
✨ From disconnection → genuine connection
✨ From feeling alone → feeling supported
You begin to:
👉 Feel loved again
👉 Feel seen and valued
👉 Show up as a woman who brings peace into her home
👉 Rebuild a marriage that feels safe, secure, and aligned
And most importantly…
👉 You become the woman your children will one day thank you for being
Faith & My Approach
I don’t force faith on anyone…
But I do lead from it.
The Bible is my life manual.
It guides how I live, how I love, and how I coach.
And while I respect every person’s beliefs…
I know that when God is invited into the process,
things shift in ways we cannot always explain.
A Little More About Me
I’m:
✨ Direct (because your marriage deserves honesty)
✨ Gentle but firm
✨ Deeply caring
✨ And fully committed to helping you win
I believe in:
👉 Loving deeply
👉 Forgiving quickly
👉 And fighting for what truly matters
Family is everything to me.
And I don’t believe people should give up on something
that could have been restored with the right support.
This Is My Mission
To help women restore their marriages…
so families stay whole, children feel safe,
and love doesn’t get lost when it could have been rebuilt.
If You’re Still Here…
That means something in you hasn’t given up.
And that matters more than you think.
👉 You don’t have to do this alone.
Why don't you book a complimentary coffee session with me and let's chat on your next best step forward.....